If you can't be with the one you love than put that love into the one you are , because you are always with yourself so enjoy and celebrate who and what you are :-) ;-). At 54 , I don't actually need cake but Ill surely love my new wkd bullet bra seamed stockings and trashy diva dress !

   That is to say how high brow do I get and how low brow do I go . Being born and an early childhood in NYC yet growing up in Pa country I think I got a varied exposure of ' brows ' . I find it interesting that I am drawn to this 'pin up ' culture ' which seems to me as being a cross roads of sorts between high and low but not really a middle ground , a mix of tasteful fashions of the 40's 50's and punk new wave attitudes [ such as tattoos ] . I guess my lowbrow-ness is due to rock n roll…

      Although I don't expect this to become a ' trend ' or anything , Im coining ' modeling ' here and now for it IS a thing to do as well as ' dressing up ' is a 'thing' to do . A thing to do , kinda like skateboarding , you know a THING to do . I have always done this 'thing' though in more subtle and humble ways . Modeling is what one does after going the whole nine yards in fashionable feminine fashions , you know after the beauty bath and boudoir vanity, into slow and sexy dressing and…