Comment by Michelle Pia on May 31, 2013 at 7:25pm

Also I invite you to like my page :) https://www.facebook.com/michellepiadiscoveringyourbeauty?ref=hl

Comment by Michelle Pia on May 31, 2013 at 7:47pm

I should add I also had on a blouse and jacket as it was a blustery day

Comment by Shy Anne on June 1, 2013 at 4:49am

Great sentiment :)

Comment by Michelle Pia on June 1, 2013 at 10:24am

Thanks for the comments ladies. Jessica I suspect you are right her words were an indication of the state of her soul and it wasn't in good condition. My choice was to not reflect the ugly back it was hard! I hate when women war on each other with their words or actions. It seems we are assaulted on so many fronts that we shouldn't turn our swords on each other. We myself included for sure need to learn how to wield our strength not on tearing each other down but in reflecting the best of each other. Women are magnificent creatures. I'm sorry that you have issues with your sister on this. I hope she finds peace. I've come to a better place with my sister recently. For me I had to let go of negative labels others had imposed on me and us as sisters. I was always coming up short according to other people's measurements. They would say why can't you be like her outgoing fun etc they let me know i was lacking and she was not with comments about my size everything. My sister and I actually had a talk about it when she heard how I was treated she was angry in my behalf. I was no longer letting others comments have the power over my views or my relationship with her. We re different and that's ok. We're not meant to be the same. The conversation ended with her saying your my sister and I love you and I feel the same way about her.

Comment by Ellie Mae Berry on June 1, 2013 at 1:57pm

I'm sorry you had to deal with that negativity, but I'm also really happy you received such a lovely compliment out of it! 
A lot of women react with negativity towards things that make them jealous, so maybe she could have been upset that you have the confidence to wear what makes you look even more beautiful. (Either way, she should not have reacted in such a horrid manner.) 

You handled that situation like a true PUG. Props to you and don't take her words to heart. 

Comment by Michelle Pia on June 1, 2013 at 2:07pm

Thanks for your comment Ellie Mae Berry. Adore your name by the way. :)The lovely young lady who complimented me had no clue what had just went down but her words helped me put things in perspective. So I was thankful for that.

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