A Pinup Girl's Guide to Having an Affair

Does your relationship need a pick me up? Do you want the sparks to fly again or do you want it to be even hotter in the bedroom? Well, I've just the thing for you... Have an affair.

Wait, calm down, before you send me a nasty email, hear me out. Have an affair with your husband, your boyfriend, or for my really modern pinups... your girlfriend.

All I'm suggesting is some good old fashioned role playing.. And trust me, it is so much fun! It's so simple all you need is:

~New sexy underwear (I feel as though garters are a must)

~A hotel room (an out of town hotel room is best)

~Days of prep (there has to be a build up)

~ Some new moves (watch porn or take a pole dancing class so that you can do things he never imagined you'd do)

~A dirty mind (you'll need the skills to talk good and dirty via text and in bed)

~Motivation (not into porn? Watch sexy films instead like "Henry and June", "9 1/2 Weeks" or "Nina takes a Lover")

~Someone willing to play (your significant other has to be willing to take this wild ride with you.)

Now... Let the games begin!

1. Contact him via text or email and start flirting. I think it's best to start days in advance because I live for the build up.

2. Send him a dirty pic. If you're shy don't worry, there's plenty of girls all over the web that look like you so send a headless shot of some other hottie...

3. Pick a hot bar to meet. Get as sexy as humanly possible and tell him where to meet you. Make sure you pick the place and it's somewhere he's never been.

4. Pretend to meet for the first time... This is the fun part. Order a drink you've never had and with confidence say all the things you would never say to someone you just met for the first time.

5. Get him to the room and..Be the fantasy. Ravish him. There is nothing wrong with playing and fulfilling a hot fantasy. Have fun with it...

6. Repeat steps 1 through 5.